Where does the all-loving part come in?

I have given money to the beggers who hold up the signs, (they probably spent it on booze) I have raked a neighbors yard whow as not of the same faith as I am (it took me an hour to rake her whole yard), I have doen a sunday school type club in a poor community, I have went to Romaina on a missions trip to the Gypsies amd so forth and I am a calvinist.